My Eidd

My dear baby, when he is 7 months <3

cute      ^.^

Sincerely me

I never knew.

I never knew why they hated me that much.
I never knew why,
I never knew how much my accomplishments are recognize by them,
I never knew how to let them come by,
I never knew how to impress them and let me know that i am alive,
I wish they could just see me more, then only see me when they see me.
I never have tried so hard in my life and gain a lot more,
I never expected my life would turn out this good, maybe it is just the reason why,
I thank them for not recognizing me, and let me humbly passes by,
Therefore i cherish only to my moment and time, and let them be how they might.

Sincerely me.

If I had my child to raise over again - Diane Loomans

If I had my child to raise all over again,
I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I'd finger paint more, and point the finger less.
I would do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I would care to know less and know to care more.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars,
I'd do more hugging and less tugging.
I'd see the oak tree in the acorn more often,
I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.
I'd model less about the love of power,
And more about the power of love

Problems faced in group interaction ad ways to overcome these problems

What is group interaction?

Group interaction is where two or more interdependent individuals who influence one another through social interactions. The aim of it is to fulfill and to accomplish a goal or the objectives of a meeting. Whereby the individuals in that group will brainstorm in search for ideas, therefore it requires active participation amongst the group members. Being in a group means that each individual members has their own role to play. Each members will have to contributes and put forth ideas, express their own opinions or arguments,  negotiate, to interrupt politely when asking questions on what are being discussed and to answer whatever clarifications that are needed. Then only any other irrelevant ideas can be weeded out and the group will finally foster a consensus and come to a conclusion, in order for them to achieve the objectives of their meeting. Every group will have a leader. The leader are elected by a higher power or via discussion by the group itself. The elected leader will then manage the discussions, by introducing the subject that are being discussed, inviting other individuals within the groups to contribute their ideas, to seek clarifications on the ideas contributed by the group members and finally closing the discussions after having met the objectives. If the discussions are handled properly and been managed well, it will be an enjoyable event and will have a fruitful outcome. Having skills in group interactions are important nowadays, as we will have to work along many other individuals in order for us to achieve our own or the company's objectives required. Though, group work are sometimes, quite difficult to manage, but it can build up valuable skills in ourselves and contributes to having a successful issue - oriented program. It helps us to be a good negotiator, and to have the skills on how to put forth and to concede your arguments. building group interaction skills also helps us in responding to questions and ways of answering them politely and appropriately. 

Hell's gate

Wow! that is the first thing that came into my mind. Kan best kalau dapat pergi tempat-tempat ni. Amongst all of them, yang paling interest me the most is 'Hell's Door in Turkmenistan'. Pergh...!! sangat santekk seh!

It is located in Kara-Kum desert (nama sgt menakutkan) at Turkmenistan. apahal jadik mcm tu? adalah kerana pada tawun..(hehehe) 1971, sekumpulan pencari minyak dari Soviet dikatakan drill through the chamber, whereby it filled with natural gas. the cavern then collapsed, so it left a sinkhole as deep as 25 metres. It is said until now the gas still rises. So, some says the ignites the gas to avoid gas poisoning. (correct me if I'm wrong). And it has been burning since. But, ada jugak yang cakap, it is all via mother nature... (beats me)...

Still, saya sangat teringin nak tingok... Sangat cantik bukan? Check this out!

More nice pictures here! :D

Credits to aquiziam

Simon's Cat in 'Double Trouble'

This is soo cute.. their behavior are actually exactly like our cats at home.

I love it...!!! <3

Credit to @simonscat

Challenging characteristic of online learning

Introduction

What is online learning?

When you learn you are in the process of acquiring skill or knowledge. Whether it is via the traditional way or via "Online learning"

 “Online learning” simply describes the way of accessing it, where learning content is delivered via the internet and other new media technologies to facilitate interactions among learners and tutors. 

This facility is now used by educational institutions in many countries allowing  people of all ages and backgrounds to have easy access to knowledge and to teachers, completing coursework and to remove the time restriction to access course lectures. Whereby students are no longer required to travel to class.

Nowadays, technology made online learning possible for individuals who wants to continue their studies. Learners participates using audio and video conferencing, e-mails, chats and computer conferencing. With all of the learning materials are constantly being developed to enhance individuals learning outcomes, they are too delivered via internet through e-books and other multimedia learning objects.

The beauty of online learning that makes it different from traditional learning for adult learners are :

• Flexibility : Adults learner, most of them are already attached with a lot of other commitments, therefore it is important that they can work the learning on their own time and place and at their own pace. Therefore online learning are convenient.

Compared to traditional learning, where the learning takes place within the classroom and or in school. 

• Learning process : The learning process takes place in groups or individually. Whereby there is more of the 'student - teacher' interactions, and sometimes, the students talks as much as or more than the teachers. The teachers in this process guides the students to the information 

Whereas traditionally, learning process is conducted with participation of the whole class with the teachers speaking more than the students. The 'student - teachers' interaction are with one teacher against the whole class, whereby the teachers have to concentrate on the whole class rather than one on one, with the teacher as the only authority. 

• Emphases in the learning process : On online learning learns on "how" and less "what". the learning includes research study, combining searching for and collecting information. the process makes a better connection to the world and the subject is rich and includes all kinds of material in all different kinds of formats.

In the traditional ways of learning, most students learns on "what" and not "how". The students are not involved in inquiring and solving problems, but more in the tasks that are given to them by the teachers, whereby they are only busy completing the required subject matter quotas.

All of the above are on pros of online learning. Here, it has been explained what are the meaning of online learning and the definition. included are also what differentiate online learning with our traditional ways of learning. In this essay, we will see what are the challenging characteristic that online learners face, and on suggestions that we can imply on improving the online learning experience for all online learners. As I am also an online learner, some of the challenges arise from what i felt, is the challenges that I face as an online learner.

Body of Report

Everything in the world have it's pros and cons, and despite of all the pros of online learning, there are some cons in the matter. Here I would like to point out some of the challenge of online learning.

1) Time management

-  As online learners, time management is a common problem. And as adult learners, we are committed. committed to work, family and so many other things. We are not in campus, and it is hard to stay motivated. we can't afford to fall behind, making us fail courses and in turn wastes our time and money. therefore it is important to have time managed for your studies.

Solutions

First. Analyze the use of time. And from there, set out priorities. As an online student, we are not restricted to a rigid schedule given by our campus. Make a personal schedule, by setting aside a few specific hours for study every day and dividing it on, for work and family. That is one way to also avoid procrastination. Good time management allows us enough time to complete schoolwork and other responsibilities. 

Examples of time management schedule

2) Losing concentration 

- Concentration. it can also mean or define as 'the ability to direct our thinking to whatever direction that we intended.' We all have the ability to concentrate, but often and at other times our thoughts are scattered and we would wonder off. How often when we are in school or class, even during a face to face tutorial, our mind would wonder off occasionally?Even when we are facing the tutor during class, our mind wonders off, how would it be if we have to study individually? Here are a few reason or cause to make us loose concentration. 

• Environmental distraction - With the surroundings keep intruding or distracting, with noises coming from the TV or radio and having your children running around. 

• Boredom, lack of interest or being vague - Sometimes some subjects are less interesting to us, or perhaps the way the tutors convey the lessons makes us loose interest and be easily bored. And if we are not sure of what to do or why we are suppose to do it. 

• Social media - When we get bored, we tend to stop and wonder off. Facebook, twitters, YouTube these are the usual media that we tend to wonder off too.

Solutions

• Make sure the study area is just comfortable enough for us to study. Or we can just go to the library too study, where it is convenient and materials are within hands reach. 

• Try to create genuine interest. Tell yourself on why you have to do this. Whenever you notice your thoughts starts to wander off, tell yourself to STOP and try to bring back your attention back. This sounds simple but it works. If you are not sure on what to do, ask around, try to define the tasks given on its terms and purposes. Here the tutor also plays the main role, tell the students on the benefits on what and how it can effect beneficially on the students future, career wise and skills that the students can eventually take from it. 

• AVOID checking social media status every few minutes. I am not saying that we shouldn't have fun, but try to do it once every hour. Surely there isn't that we are going to miss during the interval. Willpower.

3) Fear of technical problem / Computer illiteracy  

- When we learn online, we use a range of technologies which mainly involves the internet. It enables us to communicate one to one. We communicate through emails, chat rooms, forums, audio conferencing, video conferencing and others. And as we know, in order for an online education to succeed, it is crucially acquired that students can access the world wide web to connect to the online learning environment. As far as we know, internet nowadays are still not universal. The fear of technical problem, where in some time, the computer suddenly breaks down or unable to connect to the server. Not all of us are IT savvy. So, how does online learning comply when some of us are not aware of the functions on our computers and the software's? Or, simply, on how to use the internet. 


Solutions


For student's that are not 'well verse' in using the computer and internet, the school itself can make a subject that is compulsory for the students to take and pass. School's like OUM makes it compulsory to take subject of "Learning skills for Open Distance Learner" which teaches students how to manage online learning. The topic includes on getting to know your personal computer, how to use the internet, information retrieval and even Basic Powerpoint usage. With the basic knowledge of the above, they can take the initiative to browse, install and update anti viruses and taking the basic computer monthly maintenance in order to avoid computer break downs. By taking these steps, it will ensure online education a success, and it won't drag the whole system down. 

4) Lack of immediate reply or feedback

- Online learning are not like traditional learning, as I had explained earlier in my introductions. Some students felt the lack of interaction between tutor and students are a little awkward. And when students have questions and inquiries, they have to go online in forums and post the inquiries and wait for feedback, which in some cases are not immediate. The questions and inquiries cannot be asked directly and be given prompt reply as traditional learning provides.

Solutions

Be prepared for the worst. Get your tutors cell phone number and her direct email. Never skip your tutorial. Get ready with questions when you attend your tutorial. The tutors won't mind you asking questions, they are there to help. 

5) Stress

- Modern life is full of hassles. moreover, when we are working and studying at the same time. Stress is so commonplace that we are getting use to it and perhaps has become a way of life. What is stress? Stress is just the way our body response to upsetting and threatening situation our body balance. Stress is not always bad. There are two types of stress. Positive stress and negative stress. Positive stress are the ones that helps us perform under pressure, get us motivated. It is the one that drive us to solve our problems. Whereas, the negative stress are bad. it is caused when your body over reacts and constantly running in emergency mode. There are lots of symptoms indicating that we are stressed out, physically or mentally. physically, a few of the symptoms are, nausea, dizziness or constipation. Mentally,  a few of the symptoms are memory problems, inability to concentrate, poor judgement, irritable and short tempered. What causes stress are known as stressors, a situation or pressure that is put in high demand and forces us to deal with it. 

Solutions

Because we know how widespread a stress can cause, it is important that we know our own limit. Control the way we respond. Practice relaxation techniques, such as yoga or meditations, to activate the body's relaxative response, breath in regularly and try to be in a state of restfulness. If the methods are practiced regularly, it can help you be calm and collected under pressure. Listening to soothing music is also good. It is also important to have regular rest. our mind and body cannot absorb loads of information's at one time. We need short breaks every now and then. allow the brain to process the information and our body to relax, to avoid stiff neck and shoulders.  

Conclusion

Today, online learning can offer us to expand our learning oppurtunities which also provides us top quality education through many ways on a technology based instructional environments. With the expanding needs of adult learners that want to continue on with their studies, online learning is the perfect and suitable solutions in balancing with work, families and other requirements. But in order for online learning to be successful, the need of knowing the information technology is crucial for both the faculty and students. Hand in hand, students and tutors must be able to communicate often so that there are no students being left out from the online subject environment. The internet as well as online learning will continue to grow. online learning as it expands, so will the challenges. So, educators and students must adapt in distance communicating and learning. identify the students need, and try to assist on the matter. With good, persistent initiative from both students and tutors, online learning will continue to be an acceptable learning formats that are legitimate. And all questions and discussions on the pros and cons of online learning will be dissolved in time.


References

1. University of Cambridge Counselling Service - Concentrations

2. David Rashty - Articles on Traditional learning vs. Online learning

3. Roy Tamashiro, Ed.D; Professor of Education; Webster University - Pros and Cons of Online Learning. Conflicting perceptions amng Teacher, education, Students

4. Articles from University of Illinois - Weaknesses of Online Learning

5. Understanding Stress, Symptoms, Signs, Causes and Effect - Helpguide.org